Casual Dating - Tips, tricks and rules
Casual Dating is the latest thing in the dating world and more than a one time off fad. Many people are looking for a no strings relationship as a good alternative to a solid long lasting relationship. One may say that many people are already are in a sort of casual relationship, they spend intimate moments together but the relationship can be over at any time as soon as the other partner wants a solid relationship. Casual dating is often only short term, but there is nothing against a prolonged period.
This type of dating is perfect for singles who do not want to be singles, but haven found their perfect match yet (the man or woman of their dreams). These people then have a relationship with someone they can end at any time. The uncomplicated and no strings relationship for a full life with all the trimmings.
Casual dating is especially suitable for people who do not want to have a one night stand or think that having an affair is not for them. It is the perfect kind of relationship between a one night stand and a lasting relationship with a partner.
This type of dating lends itself best for finding a partner over the internet, as it is the perfect medium to establish contacts quick and easy who want to be in a similar relationship. Of course you can also try it somewhere else...the worst thing that can happen is that the other person has no interest.
Here are some tips, tricks and rules for you. Which if you follow them will help you so that your casual date won't become a failure.
- Make your intentions known!
When you have met your supposed no string partner, it is important that from the outset you should be clear about what you want. It will end badly if you want more than your partner and would like to build a long lasting relationship from here. This is a right recipe for disaster and will end in pain from the badly went date. So from the beginning set clear boundaries and thus avoid future disappointment.
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Only do what feels right to you.
There are many things to consider. When you meet someone for the first time, and you have doubts already in the beginning, you should consider whether you should go on with it. On the other hand this should not withhold you from starting a spontaneous conversation with that pretty woman or handsome man in the supermarket. When you are both single nothing should stand in your way for a no strings relationship.
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You are not looking for your dream partner.
Everyone has their own idea of their perfect partner, some like tall, slim, blonde, blue Eyed Women, others would like more a dark-haired plumper. Or the fair northern European or the sweet spirited Southern European. It should be an adventure and not a relationship that will last a lifetime. So turn down your massive expectations, so that all doors are open. Be open to everything.
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Do not put yourself under pressure!
We all know this problem, how should we talk to the beautiful girl we just saw the the bar. You get nervous and get barely a word out of you, or if you do it sounds like unintelligible sounds. But remember you are not he only one who has these problems, there are many people who have problems with striking a conversation with strangers. You should think either is will work out or I will try again later if it doesn't. You have nothing to lose. Drop the pressure to succeed and talk to the person you like with an natural appearance and a smile. Just get some styling and take it easy with talk, flirt, exchange numbers and get an casual date.
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Never date in ones own private space
It can take place anywhere, only not at home, and only on a one night stand. With casual dating you usually go to exciting places to have your fun. As soon as someone enters one's house or apartment, stays a couple of nights, leaves personal items they are well on their way to becoming your partner and having a regular relationship with them. And this was not your plan, right?
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When no strings dating turns into love!
To do casual dating you do not need feelings of love or other affectionate feelings. But it can come sooner than we think, and suddenly you find yourself wanting a solid relationship with your partner. But it can also end quickly. When the current partner doesn't feel the same, he or she will be faster gone than you want. When this happens keep calm and think simply that the next or the one after that will come. Let it never end in a way that you do not want to see anyone any more. Say to yourself after you had such an experience that nothing will have to get out of your way? ... Should it develop into a loving relationship and it is not certain whether your partner wants this as well you should not rush into things and take it slow. Casual dating can be highly addictive and you get to know more and more new contacts that you care about each in their own way. Jealousy and other negative feelings should never be introduced in Casual dating since its all about having fun with each other. When a solid relationship should develop from this no strings relationship, you should be fair and end the other no stings relationships if you feel the same way. How would you feel if the other person did this to you. And also this way you can put all your energy into this person and become happy together.
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Do not be to open!
There are many conversation topics that you can talk about. But you should avoid talking about your sex partners and how much you already had or even how many you are having right now on the side. No one likes to hear that they are three other you have to compete with. Besides it show that you like to brag about your partners, this relates especially to men and should be avoided at all costs!
So a small recap...
- Perfect for people who are single and do not want to have a solid relationship.
- Its all about having fun!
- Love doesn't matter
- Often its all about casual sex!
- Keep your emotions at home
- You will probably not find your dream partner here.
... Without obligations!