How to succeed with your one-night stand

Did you know? The term one-night stand comes actually from the theatre scene and means a performance that can only be seen in one evening. Most of us know this term though for a sexual adventure that does not last longer than one night. It sounds quite simple, but is not always so. Basically, a perfect one-night stand should be nothing more than good sex. But many of us who have engaged in it ever, are agreed: There are also bad one-night stands. Namely those that make us wake up with a empty feeling - and thinking, "Why did I do that?" With the following one-night stand tips you can not always avoid this feeling, but helps you increase your chances for a unique and beautiful adventure..

1. The wrong hunting ground
   
   A one-night stand develops rarely a relationship. This much is certain. And therefore it is better that you do not look for the right partner within your friends and acquaintances. Ex-partner or partners of friends here are just as taboo as work colleagues. Finally, your relationship with them will be unnecessarily complicated by having a one-night stand. In the worst case one develops feelings, while you were just on a passionate adventure. In short: If you want to avoid disappointment and hurt feelings, better steer away from friends and acquaintances as potential partners.
2. Keeping your head clear
   
   The attractive flirt from last night, changes at dawn as a daylight blunder? After a one-night stand, this sounds like a nightmare scenario in general - and not at all times unrealistic. The proverbial "drinking you pretty" really works according to findings by British scientists. A glass of alcohol is okay, if you want to drink a little courage to speak to your "object of desire". But whoever drinks too much risks making a decision, which may be regretted later. It is better to pick a one-night stand with a clear head. This way you will not agree to things that you might not want. And you will be spared the nightmare scenario in the morning.
3. You place or mine?
   
   When you want to wake up the next morning with a fresh set of clothes and you are able to get your partner out of the door before the right time? Then take your one-night stand with you. Otherwise, let the unique adventure take place at the home of another. This way you can always disappear - and the bed does not have to be reupholstered.
4. Practise safe sex.
   
   Sex with a condom should not be a question of good sound, but essential for a one-night stand. So it is not forgotten in the heat of battle, you should always have a few condoms in your jacket, pocket or handbag handy. This applies to women as well as for the "stronger sex".

And after that?

If the one night was a mutually passionate, a friendly goodbye will be enough. Or did the one-night stand added unforeseen expectations? Then a friendly goodbye will not be enough. If you want to exchange phone numbers its okay. But constant calling or texting is not. After all with a one-night stand is a one time fun without obligations. And certainly not a option for a lasting relationship.